Guiding Your On Your Journey To A Higher Quality of Life

Launched in 2016 as a means to serve as an essential oil resource and DIY lifestyle product database for our friends and Oily Family, EssentialOils.Life has grown into a global resource for natural minded people like you who are interested in finding more ways to use essential oils to enhance your quality of life.

How EssentialOils.Life Came To Life

Hello. My name is Nicole Graber. Military research analyst turned natural wellness advocate, homeschooling mom, and entrepreneur.

The story of EssentialOils.Life is inspired by my own personal life, navigating my way out of my own personal Hell.

And evolves to becoming the support system I wish I had back then, so that you have something simple to use to help you through your journey.

To understand how this website came to be… I invite you to journey back with me to 2013… way before this dream came true.

In 2013 I was unknowingly on the tail end of my nearly decade long chronic autoimmune and neurological health crisis that had stripped me of my military career, and left me homeless. By 2013, I averaged 6 seizures every single day, endured constant chronic pain, suffered through unexplained muscle weakness and failure that left me unable to walk or stand much of the time, struggled through short term memory loss, and lead me into a season of severe depression and anxiety where I was left a shell of the physically fit, vibrant, energetic young woman I once was.

Plans Changed While I Waited To Die

In 2013, I was waiting to die. I was closing in on my 30th birthday, with multiple doctors’ words ringing in my ears, warning me that I wouldn’t live to see 30. Between seizure spells and during my weak moments where I spent close to 20 hours a day either sleeping or nearly unconscious, I would surf Pinterest for anything positive that could distract me from my misery. While sifting through recipes and needlepoint patterns I knew I’d never have the dexterity to actually create, I came across some personal stories of putting diabetes into recession through using food as medicine. Back then there was very little on the internet about healing naturally, but that article piqued my interest. I don’t have diabetes, but I knew from past medical trainings that diabetes is an autoimmune disorder. If food could help with that, then perhaps it could help my 13 autoimmune and neurological diagnoses.

It wasn’t my fault I became sick (chemical exposure during my time in the Navy was to thank for that). However… it WAS 100% my responsibility to heal myself. And thus far… the veteran hospitals and health clinics were only making me worse with horrific side effects from the medication they prescribed.

Having an overnight EEG at Johns Hopkins Hospital

Finding Hope Through Shocking Revelations

I decided to try the Paleo diet for a month to see how things went, especially after learning about all the harmful additives in prepackaged foods and different farming methods. My seizures decreased from 6 each day to 2 a week. I became able to walk more unassisted. And while assisted with crutches, I was able to build up my walking to 1/8 mile (a really big deal after struggling to walk across a small house).

This caused my analytical mind to spin… if removing harmful chemicals from my diet helped me this much, is there anything else in my home that could be hindering my healing?

I was shocked to learn my “healthy” cleaning supplies were actually toxic and greenwashing the truth. I was speechless to see how many household products contain neurotoxic and hormone disrupting chemicals. So much that we created a course to teach more about them.

I threw them all away. Every single cleaner, cosmetic, and personal care product. And I had a major anxiety attack seeing probably $200 worth of product being hauled into the garbage truck and drive away (not chump change when my monthly disability was less than $1,000). Then… relief. This pushed me to create all of my cleaning and personal care supplies using healthy ingredients while I searched for a better alternative that wasn’t so labor intensive for me.

It was a major turning point for me. 3 weeks later of DIYing all my cleaning supplies… I had my very last seizure. September 19, 2013 at 8 in the evening… I endured my last seizure, which also happened to be my very last symptom of all my health diagnoses.

Learning Essential Oils Aren’t Immune To Harmful Additives

During this time, I was also researching the health effects of essential oils, and started a year-long series of experiments using my body as a litmus test to see if the research would help me. I found a few essential oils that actually helped me with supporting my nervous system, detox, and support my body through healing and gaining strength.

Then my mind dove down the rabbit hole of whether there was any issues with additives in essential oils, and the difference between brands. This was massively eye opening for me… and ultimately is where the motivation for this website came from. I needed to share my findings with other people.

Breathing Life Into Dead Dreams

I was forced out of the Navy in 2008 because of my health problems that suddenly appeared in 2005 while I was stationed in the Middle East. In 2012 I was told by my 3rd Neurologist that no one could help me, I was just waiting to die, and only a miracle from God would cause me to still be alive to see 30 (in 2013).

Before succumbing to my health crisis, I had big dreams. I loved teaching, I loved leadership, I loved traveling and exploring, I loved animals, I loved weight lifting and running, and I loved to laugh.

My health crisis took everything from me… my work, hobbies, identity, mindset, motivation, give-a-damn, physical abilities, energy… everything that mattered to the core of who I was.

Slowly making a few lifestyle shifts and embracing essential oils changed everything all over again. I regained my physical abilities, developed hope for the future, regained my mental abilities, reconnected me with my soul, inspired a whole new career path, gave me the family I was told was impossible, and provided me with quality friends.

For the first time in nearly a decade… I felt alive again. Literally feeling like I’ve been given a second chance at life.


Leaning into a healthy lifestyle using a short series of very simple lifestyle shifts saved my life, gave me purpose, and segued into serving as a leader in the natural wellness space, which includes setting up this website.

I truly believe knowledge not shared is knowledge wasted, and strive to help you through making your searching easier and more comprehensive so you can live your best life feeling confident, energized, and inspired.

Because life is too short to feel bogged down and sluggish… and living should never require harmful junk to be laced in most cleaning and personal care products.

EssentialOils.Life is here to inspire, uplift, and encourage you… guiding you on your journey to live your best life.

Let’s Join Forces So You Can Live A Higher Quality of Life

Our team at EssentialOils.Life is here to guide you through ending your life season feeling confused, bogged down, exhausted, and unfulfilled. We will do this by helping you solve these problems by ditching the harmful chemicals that weigh on your body, encouraging you to honor your mind, body, and soul through your transformation into leading a vibrant, purposeful, energetic life where you will spend more time living in gratitude and feeling like yourself again.

See Our Online Self-Paced Lifestyle Classes

We have a few courses available for you to take at your own pace, including courses on how to use essential oils, and how to remove toxins from your home

Receive Individual Coaching

I’ll personally guide you through identifying your goals (personal and/or professional), and reverse engineer them to find a plan that works fro you

Become A Member

Where you’ll not only receive essential oil and oil-infused product discounts, but you’ll also be welcomed into a multinational online community designed to share support, ideas, and inspiration for living a natural wellness lifestyle and getting the most out of you roil use.

Meet Our Team Leaders

We have a variety of team leaders in a variety of locations with a variety of experiences. We are here to help guide you on your journey as mentors and as friends.